You’re thought about more often than you probably can guess, and thoughts of you just naturally bring smiles of happiness. Now, that it’s your birthday, may each and every warm thought, bring a wish for all the best in life, and all your favorite things. — Unknown
Today I am grateful for the last 15 years. My niece Hanna turns 16 today, and this is something I wrote for her.
Just fifteen years ago, as I was passing through Fort Worth, something stole my heart, that something was the most beautiful baby I had ever encountered. One day the heavens opened up, and a little soul got loose, and blessed us with you. You were such an amazing baby to be around, there was so much energy that emanated from you, so much joy that radiated from your eyes. I knew there was no way I could leave and miss a single moment of your life.
You are growing up and are now a young woman. I may not be your father, but you will always be my little girl. Thinking back over the years, I wanted to share with you some of my most important memories of you. Some of them happy, some of them sad.
My happiest memory: “Care Care.” Hearing your beautiful, little sing-song voice calling out my name with so much love.
My saddest memory: The day you learned how to say my name correctly, and called me Cary.
My second saddest memory: Your first day of kindergarten was especially sad for me. I had, had almost four years of non-stop playing with my favorite playmate, and now you would be gone most of the day.
My second most happiest memory: That afternoon when you returned home. Even though you were gone just half a day, I missed you so much, and was so glad to see you return. I listened to every word, as you excitedly told me about your first day of school.
My third happiest memory: The couple of times you either expressed your hopes that I could be your daddy, or you referred to me as your daddy.
My third saddest memory: The day I realized that you didn’t need me as much anymore.
Yes, my saddest memories are of you growing up, even if just a little bit, but only because we have always known we’d have such a short time with you. You have been raring to go since day one. It was our job to prepare you for the world and all it has to offer, knowing that some day you will go out and find your own way, with the hope that you will eventually return to us safely. As you turn sixteen, and that day gets closer, I pray daily we did our job. You have always been ready for the world, but I don’t know if the world is ready for you.
I have always felt honored that I could play such a huge part in your life, and I feel lucky to have known that little girl, and I am proud, of the fine young lady she is turning out to be.
Love,
Your Uncle Cary
